Posted by Jezebel on September 03, 19101 at 04:24:52:
In Reply to: virginity sucks posted by bob on September 02, 19101 at 18:29:46:
: hi,
: i`m a 35yr old guy who has never had sex.i`ve had one or two chances to get to know a woman better but i`ve been so scared that i`ve just made my excuses and ran, pathetic huh.
: the thought of letting anyone get close to me is scary but the thought of sex is worse.
: don`t get me wrong, i`m fairly good looking and have a good job.everything else in my life is fine but this is like a phobia although i have never heard of anyone else with this problem.
: what can i do about this and even if i did manage to get over it would any woman ever want a guy like me?
Hey Bob,
My commiserations. Here's my 2 pennies' worth:
Many people find that alcohol helps, as it overcomes inhibitions and is a relaxant, (although obviously an excessive amount would be detrimental!) I would advise you to be honest with a prospective partner, not necessarlily that you've never sipped from the naughty cup, but that you're nervous, etc. If you're reasonable looking and solvent, don't worry, you're eligible (just call me a cynic, eh?) Good luck! Hope you get some soon. :) J.