Posted by Jezebel on September 25, 19101 at 16:50:53:
In Reply to: perv non addiction! posted by celt on September 25, 19101 at 16:36:47:
: The woman I'm seeing now has heard from a mutual friend that I have quite a past with regard to kinky activities and is now refusing to have sex because she thinks I'm always comparing! How do I convince her I'm perfectly happy not having anal sex with a woman dressed as a nun in leather underwear, handcuffs and a gag every day?
So who is wearing the outfit, you or her?? Anyway, I digress *trying to erase visual*. She needs to know that sex is a whole smorgasbord of delights! Phew, isn't it great?? But as you say, you wouldn't wanna gorge yourself on the chocolate cheese cake every day *wink*. She's just feeling a bit insecure, perhaps because she's not very experienced herself. Reassure her that most men seem to value that in a woman.. lol. Tell her it's only fun with her, whatever way you do it (blah blah). Try asking her if there's anything she'd really like to try (ya never know, she could be a dark horse!!) If all that fails, get her drunk. J.